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We have written a blog on system, it would be helpful if you could read it first then continue here. Routine is a kind of system that we make for ourself. Some question that we are going to address in this blog are : - What is routine - Why to have routine - Tips to Have a good routine What is routine : we all know what is routine, I doesnt thing it is needed to explain. We wake up, bath,eat breakfast, find car or bike keys,went office, work, come back home, watch TV, sometimes fight, eat & sleep - this is a normal routine. Why to have a routine : conciously or conciously we all are following some routine. So, why it doesnt must be as per our liking. The purpose of routine is to feed a thought or habit or pattern in our subconcious mind so that we do not have to figure out everything every day. A routine puts you in an automatic mode. We wake wake, check our phone message or Instagram, we didn't realise it but it's part of our routine or vice versa. Secondly, it's ea...

We could approach a person for his service via 2 ways. We could adopt market norm or social norm. Say we are in fever market rate for our treatment is rs 100. If we offer doctor & paying rs 1000 then we are approaching him professionals & this is market norm. If we ask for doctor service for free as help then we are approaching him with social norm. There is no issue in approaching anyone with social norm. The other person may also refuse to help you but there are also many person in world who like to do charity & help. It's kind of wonderful feeling when you help someone unconditionally & many people like to experience it regularly in life. The problem arise when you approach someone with social norm & then you tries to pay him in return for his service with less amount then market norm. Say in our example, there was no issue when you approaches doctor & pays him 1000. Let's look what happens if you approaches doctor with social norm & then offer hi...

What do we really want ? We all have this Question , every now and then … and a general answer would be happiness. we wants to be happy. But have you ever seen a person who is always happy ? Difficult to find one because happiness is a emotion & we do not stay in only one emotion. All the external things effects tries to effect our emotion. A second answer Would be success. But there are many people who are very successful but still not happy & Commit suicide. Success not necessary makes a person happy . And Success differs from person to person . An another answer could be freedom ? … We love Freedom . We crave for Freedom. And this appear to be most important need than ever during Coronavirus Lockdown . Hahaha Anyway coming back to the point , We need Different kind of freedom. Freedom of Finance . Freedom from Relationship restriction . Freedom of Free time . Also freedom doesn't give you happiness… A Person might be free and enjoying games and movies . But he will need ...

We all do have a invisible boundary that help us to distinguish things that we do control, have right & that we don't. Some examples of boundary from practical life : 1) Boundary of Nation : every nation have its boundary & jurisdiction of that nation applies to all part within that boundary.  You can't cross any nation boundary without prior approval. 2) Your home : your home do have boundary in form of walls. No body could enter in your home without approval. 3) King castle : Earlier, kings Live in a castle protected with some layers of defence. If one tries to enter in King castle without approval, it's considered as attack. You may have listen many times in general communication, "hey, you are crossing your limits". In order to not cross our limits,we need to understand what Comes within our limits & what Comes out of our limit. What Comes within our limit : all of our resources that we do control Comes within our boundary like - Finance - ...

Note : the content is taken from book" mind operating system" Have you ever ride a bike?  If yes, then you shall be aware that bike runs on 2 fuels : 1) petrol - it Is required to run bike 2) mobil oil - it is required to to keep engine fluid & proper working. Let assume: A) what Happens if bike have mobil oil but do not have petrol? Ans- bike shall not move but its engine shall be fine. B) what happens if bike have petrol but do not have mobil oil? Ans - bike shall move but it shall be harmful for engine, the engine will cease if you continues for long period. Practical application : replace as below 1) replace bike with yourself 2) petrol with courage - to keep moving 3) mobil oil with happiness - to keep engine smooth Let's repeat our some of questions again but this time it's about your life: A) what will happen If you possess happiness(mobil oil) within but do not possess courage(petrol) to try new things, to take risk? Ans : you shall be living a peaceful li...