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We could approach a person for his service via 2 ways. We could adopt market norm or social norm. Say we are in fever market rate for our treatment is rs 100. If we offer doctor & paying rs 1000 then we are approaching him professionals & this is market norm. If we ask for doctor service for free as help then we are approaching him with social norm. There is no issue in approaching anyone with social norm. The other person may also refuse to help you but there are also many person in world who like to do charity & help. It's kind of wonderful feeling when you help someone unconditionally & many people like to experience it regularly in life. The problem arise when you approach someone with social norm & then you tries to pay him in return for his service with less amount then market norm. Say in our example, there was no issue when you approaches doctor & pays him 1000. Let's look what happens if you approaches doctor with social norm & then offer hi...

What do we really want ? We all have this Question , every now and then … and a general answer would be happiness. we wants to be happy. But have you ever seen a person who is always happy ? Difficult to find one because happiness is a emotion & we do not stay in only one emotion. All the external things effects tries to effect our emotion. A second answer Would be success. But there are many people who are very successful but still not happy & Commit suicide. Success not necessary makes a person happy . And Success differs from person to person . An another answer could be freedom ? … We love Freedom . We crave for Freedom. And this appear to be most important need than ever during Coronavirus Lockdown . Hahaha Anyway coming back to the point , We need Different kind of freedom. Freedom of Finance . Freedom from Relationship restriction . Freedom of Free time . Also freedom doesn't give you happiness… A Person might be free and enjoying games and movies . But he will need ...

We all do have a invisible boundary that help us to distinguish things that we do control, have right & that we don't. Some examples of boundary from practical life : 1) Boundary of Nation : every nation have its boundary & jurisdiction of that nation applies to all part within that boundary.  You can't cross any nation boundary without prior approval. 2) Your home : your home do have boundary in form of walls. No body could enter in your home without approval. 3) King castle : Earlier, kings Live in a castle protected with some layers of defence. If one tries to enter in King castle without approval, it's considered as attack. You may have listen many times in general communication, "hey, you are crossing your limits". In order to not cross our limits,we need to understand what Comes within our limits & what Comes out of our limit. What Comes within our limit : all of our resources that we do control Comes within our boundary like - Finance - ...

Note : the content is taken from book" mind operating system" Have you ever ride a bike?  If yes, then you shall be aware that bike runs on 2 fuels : 1) petrol - it Is required to run bike 2) mobil oil - it is required to to keep engine fluid & proper working. Let assume: A) what Happens if bike have mobil oil but do not have petrol? Ans- bike shall not move but its engine shall be fine. B) what happens if bike have petrol but do not have mobil oil? Ans - bike shall move but it shall be harmful for engine, the engine will cease if you continues for long period. Practical application : replace as below 1) replace bike with yourself 2) petrol with courage - to keep moving 3) mobil oil with happiness - to keep engine smooth Let's repeat our some of questions again but this time it's about your life: A) what will happen If you possess happiness(mobil oil) within but do not possess courage(petrol) to try new things, to take risk? Ans : you shall be living a peaceful li...

Classify & put all the person in your life in one of the 3 circles.  The 3 circles of relationship are : 1) 1st circle - this circle consist of people who are  - very close to you.  - family members.  - you shall be in life for long term say 10 to 20 yrs - shall be present for you when you needed most & face worst situation of your life.  Checklist to be qualify in 1st circle: A) intention - he shall be having pure & good intention towards you.  If he do not possess good attention for you, his other qualities, money & talent is not useful for you.  B) location - you could meet him personally. Location barrier hamper relation in long run.  Also, your wishing on social media for happy birthday is so much appreciated as everybody is doing so even who is not being touch since 10 yrs although it could be good to start conversation.  Your efforts to travel & meet in week or 2 weeks with that person is uniqueness that could make ...

What is system? System means following predefined steps one by one aligned in sequence to achieve desired target. Now, you have to define those steps & its sequence which leads you to goal. Ex, every machine follow system. In net banking, its a predefined sequence that ask for id, password, otp on phone & then payment. In atm machine, system ask you yo Insert card, pin code, withdraw or balance inquiry & so on. How system is helpful in human life? Okk, we have two minds Concious mind - the acts require us to think while doing  work are perform by concious mind. Sub concious mind - the acts doesnt require us to think & we do it by reflex, our automatic reaction & require very less thinking as we have got it habitual by performing it number of times. You have to perform system with the help of your concious mind till it feeded in sub concious mind. Once it is feeded in sub concious mind : - your accuracy increases - you take less time to perform it - there is less...