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Durable Fulfillment - Long Lasting Peace

What do we really want ? We all have this Question , every now and then … and a general answer would be happiness. we wants to be happy. But have you ever seen a person who is always happy ? Difficult to find one because happiness is a emotion & we do not stay in only one emotion. All the external things effects tries to effect our emotion. A second answer Would be success. But there are many people who are very successful but still not happy & Commit suicide. Success not necessary makes a person happy . And Success differs from person to person . An another answer could be freedom ? … We love Freedom . We crave for Freedom. And this appear to be most important need than ever during Coronavirus Lockdown . Hahaha Anyway coming back to the point , We need Different kind of freedom. Freedom of Finance . Freedom from Relationship restriction . Freedom of Free time . Also freedom doesn't give you happiness… A Person might be free and enjoying games and movies . But he will need ...

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The defense mechanism - Boundary

We all do have a invisible boundary that help us to distinguish things that we do control, have right & that we don't. Some examples of boundary from practical life : 1) Boundary of Nation : every nation have its boundary & jurisdiction of that nation applies to all part within that boundary.  You can't cross any nation boundary without prior approval. 2) Your home : your home do have boundary in form of walls. No body could enter in your home without approval. 3) King castle : Earlier, kings Live in a castle protected with some layers of defence. If one tries to enter in King castle without approval, it's considered as attack. You may have listen many times in general communication, "hey, you are crossing your limits". In order to not cross our limits,we need to understand what Comes within our limits & what Comes out of our limit. What Comes within our limit : all of our resources that we do control Comes within our boundary like - Finance - ...

2 fuels of life - happiness & courage

Note : the content is taken from book" mind operating system" Have you ever ride a bike?  If yes, then you shall be aware that bike runs on 2 fuels : 1) petrol - it Is required to run bike 2) mobil oil - it is required to to keep engine fluid & proper working. Let assume: A) what Happens if bike have mobil oil but do not have petrol? Ans- bike shall not move but its engine shall be fine. B) what happens if bike have petrol but do not have mobil oil? Ans - bike shall move but it shall be harmful for engine, the engine will cease if you continues for long period. Practical application : replace as below 1) replace bike with yourself 2) petrol with courage - to keep moving 3) mobil oil with happiness - to keep engine smooth Let's repeat our some of questions again but this time it's about your life: A) what will happen If you possess happiness(mobil oil) within but do not possess courage(petrol) to try new things, to take risk? Ans : you shall be living a peaceful li...

3 circles of relationship

Classify & put all the person in your life in one of the 3 circles.  The 3 circles of relationship are : 1) 1st circle - this circle consist of people who are  - very close to you.  - family members.  - you shall be in life for long term say 10 to 20 yrs - shall be present for you when you needed most & face worst situation of your life.  Checklist to be qualify in 1st circle: A) intention - he shall be having pure & good intention towards you.  If he do not possess good attention for you, his other qualities, money & talent is not useful for you.  B) location - you could meet him personally. Location barrier hamper relation in long run.  Also, your wishing on social media for happy birthday is so much appreciated as everybody is doing so even who is not being touch since 10 yrs although it could be good to start conversation.  Your efforts to travel & meet in week or 2 weeks with that person is uniqueness that could make ...

Build System

What is system? System means following predefined steps one by one aligned in sequence to achieve desired target. Now, you have to define those steps & its sequence which leads you to goal. Ex, every machine follow system. In net banking, its a predefined sequence that ask for id, password, otp on phone & then payment. In atm machine, system ask you yo Insert card, pin code, withdraw or balance inquiry & so on. How system is helpful in human life? Okk, we have two minds Concious mind - the acts require us to think while doing  work are perform by concious mind. Sub concious mind - the acts doesnt require us to think & we do it by reflex, our automatic reaction & require very less thinking as we have got it habitual by performing it number of times. You have to perform system with the help of your concious mind till it feeded in sub concious mind. Once it is feeded in sub concious mind : - your accuracy increases - you take less time to perform it - there is less...

Count On v/s Feel good

What is count on ? - in simple words, if today's action build base for future action then it's count on. Ex. I use to solve rubic cubics, I was ordered 3 x 3 cube & learned to solve it. Now I ordered 4x 4 cube, this time my work effort & efforts devoted to solve 3x 3 cube is counting on as it makes my effort Less to solve 4 x 4 cube. The chain is going to continue for 5x5 cube, 6x 6 cube & so on Feel good ? - anything we do to feel happy in present moment. Like we watch Netflix, movie. Now we have to back to ourself 1 yrs ago & observe how we are better today then we used to be. If you doesnt find yourself better then may be you have spend most of time in pursuing feel good or may be you worked but on different aspects not having any connection then previous one resulting you working everytime from 0 on different aspects. Check us on you tube https://youtu.be/I3H_T0uY1mQ Check us on facebook https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2913180608801289&id=199...