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Interview Guide for Indians ... Master the Interview skills

  Master the Interview – The HR Expert’s Guide to Acing Any Selection (The T.I.K.H.O. Method) Introduction: Interviewing is a Skill, Not a Lottery Ticket The job interview isn't just a test of what you know; it's a test of who you are and how well you can present yourself . As an HR expert, I can tell you that successful candidates master four core areas: Fit, Skills, Behavior, and Motivation . We'll break down every type of question and introduce the T.I.K.H.O. mantra: T hink, I nspire, K nowledge, H onesty, O utcome. 1. The Foundation: Presentation & Confidence (The Non-Negotiables) Before you speak, your presence speaks volumes. Attitude & Confidence: Speak with CONFIDENCE (loud enough for a large classroom) and maintain a positive, energetic demeanor. Remember: Knowledge may be less, but Confidence must be high. The Honesty Rule: If you don't know the answer, clearly and politely say 'No' ( saaf mana kar do ). Never guess or fumble. Move forwar...

Thinking about Marriage ? ... Lets Get to these things settled in your mind first

 Life is all about learning . Its Dynamic and Constantly Changing ... Marriage , just push you over the edge ...  Marriage is the biggest change in your life .  These are those things which mostly don't talk about  If you not money wise sound. financially not solid you shouldn't think of marriage  marriage dynamics have changed . earlier marriage is growth , support  but not marriage is social transaction of name, status , showoff , lifestyle ... and thus it include laws  1. Keep money for after marriage. Don't put all in .  2. You will get ill ... Not just life is shared but Germs also  3. You have to prioritise .but other  priority should not be forgotten in love 

How to become more intelligent 🧠

Certainly! Here are 18 habits that can help you become smarter: Read Books : Reading stimulates your brain, improves memory, and enhances vocabulary. It also boosts emotional intelligence. Exercise Regularly : Physical activity supports brain functioning. Get Enough Sleep : Quality sleep is essential for cognitive function. Practice Meditation : Meditation can improve focus and mental clarity. Enjoy Coffee and Green Tea : These beverages have cognitive benefits. Eat Nutrient-Rich Foods : A healthy diet supports brain health. Learn to Play an Instrument : Music enhances cognitive abilities. Challenge Yourself : Seek mental stimulation by trying new things. Develop Curiosity : Passion for learning fuels intelligence. Cultivate Mental Clarity : Focus despite chaos. Embrace Innovation : Connect ideas creatively. Set Intentional Goals : Map knowledge to concrete objectives. Prioritize Reading : It makes you smarter and improves interpersonal skills. Stay Social : Engage with others to boos...

Understanding and Meeting Your Partner’s Needs: A Guide to Building Your Dream Marriage

The Different Needs of Men and Women In the realm of relationships, it’s essential to acknowledge that men and women often have different needs. While women tend to prioritize  communication and affection , men are more likely to place importance on  sex and respect . The Emotional Needs of Women Women often feel that their partners may not fully understand or meet their emotional needs. They might perceive their partners as being distant or lacking in romance. However, they can strengthen their emotional bond by understanding and meeting their partner’s sexual needs. The Importance of Meeting Emotional Needs If a man feels that his wife is not fulfilling his sexual needs, he can make a conscious effort to meet her emotional needs. This can be achieved through non-sexual affection, engaging conversations, and increased sensitivity. This approach holds the potential to fulfill his sexual needs in return. The Connection Between Sex and Emotion For many men, sex serves as a prima...

Epitome of LUST , GREED and ANGER ... Raavana !! Why we kill Ravana ?

 The Mythic Stories are not Stories , they symbolic in nature . They tell us morals , by which we should life our lives . In order, to appreciate . what is right  ... we must know what is wrong . What is good , we much know what is bad .  In Life most things comes with Shades of Grey , they do have the good and bad side . but that what we need to know ... RAAVAN Positive doesn't not out WEIGHT the EVIL he poses and sins he committed ...  we live in society which promote contradicts . Which devalue the GOOD things. and such our mind has groomed that , the GOOD THINGS satiates and BAD escalates .  Raavan being the EPITOME of LUST , GREED and ANGER . but these were not the only evils he has ...  Ravana is a character in Hindu mythology who is widely portrayed as being an evil character, though he is also a learned scholar. He was well-versed in the six shastras and the four Vedas, including the Shiva Tandava Stotra . Ravana is also considered to be the most re...

i will talk to you later| the break up poetry #it's_break_up #sadpoem

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KARTAVYA Presents Seedhi baat Swami ji ke saath || Ep 2 || CASTE SYSTEM Explained

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KARTAVYA Presents Seedhi baat Swami ji ke saath || Ep 3 || Krishana and Hindu dharam Sankat

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Happy Rakhi , Sabhi Bhaio or Bheno

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Dance Drama performed by Team

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Routine

We have written a blog on system, it would be helpful if you could read it first then continue here. Routine is a kind of system that we make for ourself. Some question that we are going to address in this blog are : - What is routine - Why to have routine - Tips to Have a good routine What is routine : we all know what is routine, I doesnt thing it is needed to explain. We wake up, bath,eat breakfast, find car or bike keys,went office, work, come back home, watch TV, sometimes fight, eat & sleep - this is a normal routine. Why to have a routine : conciously or conciously we all are following some routine. So, why it doesnt must be as per our liking. The purpose of routine is to feed a thought or habit or pattern in our subconcious mind so that we do not have to figure out everything every day. A routine puts you in an automatic mode. We wake wake, check our phone message or Instagram, we didn't realise it but it's part of our routine or vice versa. Secondly, it's ea...

Market Norm V/S Social Norm

We could approach a person for his service via 2 ways. We could adopt market norm or social norm. Say we are in fever market rate for our treatment is rs 100. If we offer doctor & paying rs 1000 then we are approaching him professionals & this is market norm. If we ask for doctor service for free as help then we are approaching him with social norm. There is no issue in approaching anyone with social norm. The other person may also refuse to help you but there are also many person in world who like to do charity & help. It's kind of wonderful feeling when you help someone unconditionally & many people like to experience it regularly in life. The problem arise when you approach someone with social norm & then you tries to pay him in return for his service with less amount then market norm. Say in our example, there was no issue when you approaches doctor & pays him 1000. Let's look what happens if you approaches doctor with social norm & then offer hi...

Durable Fulfillment - Long Lasting Peace

What do we really want ? We all have this Question , every now and then … and a general answer would be happiness. we wants to be happy. But have you ever seen a person who is always happy ? Difficult to find one because happiness is a emotion & we do not stay in only one emotion. All the external things effects tries to effect our emotion. A second answer Would be success. But there are many people who are very successful but still not happy & Commit suicide. Success not necessary makes a person happy . And Success differs from person to person . An another answer could be freedom ? … We love Freedom . We crave for Freedom. And this appear to be most important need than ever during Coronavirus Lockdown . Hahaha Anyway coming back to the point , We need Different kind of freedom. Freedom of Finance . Freedom from Relationship restriction . Freedom of Free time . Also freedom doesn't give you happiness… A Person might be free and enjoying games and movies . But he will need ...

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The defense mechanism - Boundary

We all do have a invisible boundary that help us to distinguish things that we do control, have right & that we don't. Some examples of boundary from practical life : 1) Boundary of Nation : every nation have its boundary & jurisdiction of that nation applies to all part within that boundary.  You can't cross any nation boundary without prior approval. 2) Your home : your home do have boundary in form of walls. No body could enter in your home without approval. 3) King castle : Earlier, kings Live in a castle protected with some layers of defence. If one tries to enter in King castle without approval, it's considered as attack. You may have listen many times in general communication, "hey, you are crossing your limits". In order to not cross our limits,we need to understand what Comes within our limits & what Comes out of our limit. What Comes within our limit : all of our resources that we do control Comes within our boundary like - Finance - ...

2 fuels of life - happiness & courage

Note : the content is taken from book" mind operating system" Have you ever ride a bike?  If yes, then you shall be aware that bike runs on 2 fuels : 1) petrol - it Is required to run bike 2) mobil oil - it is required to to keep engine fluid & proper working. Let assume: A) what Happens if bike have mobil oil but do not have petrol? Ans- bike shall not move but its engine shall be fine. B) what happens if bike have petrol but do not have mobil oil? Ans - bike shall move but it shall be harmful for engine, the engine will cease if you continues for long period. Practical application : replace as below 1) replace bike with yourself 2) petrol with courage - to keep moving 3) mobil oil with happiness - to keep engine smooth Let's repeat our some of questions again but this time it's about your life: A) what will happen If you possess happiness(mobil oil) within but do not possess courage(petrol) to try new things, to take risk? Ans : you shall be living a peaceful li...

3 circles of relationship

Classify & put all the person in your life in one of the 3 circles.  The 3 circles of relationship are : 1) 1st circle - this circle consist of people who are  - very close to you.  - family members.  - you shall be in life for long term say 10 to 20 yrs - shall be present for you when you needed most & face worst situation of your life.  Checklist to be qualify in 1st circle: A) intention - he shall be having pure & good intention towards you.  If he do not possess good attention for you, his other qualities, money & talent is not useful for you.  B) location - you could meet him personally. Location barrier hamper relation in long run.  Also, your wishing on social media for happy birthday is so much appreciated as everybody is doing so even who is not being touch since 10 yrs although it could be good to start conversation.  Your efforts to travel & meet in week or 2 weeks with that person is uniqueness that could make ...

Build System

What is system? System means following predefined steps one by one aligned in sequence to achieve desired target. Now, you have to define those steps & its sequence which leads you to goal. Ex, every machine follow system. In net banking, its a predefined sequence that ask for id, password, otp on phone & then payment. In atm machine, system ask you yo Insert card, pin code, withdraw or balance inquiry & so on. How system is helpful in human life? Okk, we have two minds Concious mind - the acts require us to think while doing  work are perform by concious mind. Sub concious mind - the acts doesnt require us to think & we do it by reflex, our automatic reaction & require very less thinking as we have got it habitual by performing it number of times. You have to perform system with the help of your concious mind till it feeded in sub concious mind. Once it is feeded in sub concious mind : - your accuracy increases - you take less time to perform it - there is less...

Count On v/s Feel good

What is count on ? - in simple words, if today's action build base for future action then it's count on. Ex. I use to solve rubic cubics, I was ordered 3 x 3 cube & learned to solve it. Now I ordered 4x 4 cube, this time my work effort & efforts devoted to solve 3x 3 cube is counting on as it makes my effort Less to solve 4 x 4 cube. The chain is going to continue for 5x5 cube, 6x 6 cube & so on Feel good ? - anything we do to feel happy in present moment. Like we watch Netflix, movie. Now we have to back to ourself 1 yrs ago & observe how we are better today then we used to be. If you doesnt find yourself better then may be you have spend most of time in pursuing feel good or may be you worked but on different aspects not having any connection then previous one resulting you working everytime from 0 on different aspects. Check us on you tube https://youtu.be/I3H_T0uY1mQ Check us on facebook https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2913180608801289&id=199...

The time Of Crisis & How should we behave

Its was just few months back when i was eagerly waiting for #INFINTE CRISIS Saga of ARROWVERSE to start, little to I know, the world is going to see its own INFINITE CRISIS and so were the time last year that we all (well almost of ); we were waiting for #Avengers #ENDGAME ... and now we are in the #ENDGAME. Thanos did kill half of the population ... and seeing the Corona is spreading the that might become quite a reality ... Yes ! the world is facing a COMMON ENEMY ... and this ENEMY is strong ... quick and Lethal.  It spreads like a WILDFIRE and KILLS in the same manner. this is the time when we have to be Careful and must take all the steps with great precaution ... not only we have to fight Corona but also ... but also have to fight our Desperation, Anger, Loss, hopelessness. To many nation the plight is of despair It is very easy to loose sight from what is important and how idealism should be .... but to the people who have intellecut , who have patience. must show . this is ...